“You couldn’t relive your life, skipping the awful parts, without losing what made it worthwhile. You had to accept it as a whole–like the world, or the person you loved.” ― Stewart O’Nan,
“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” ― Lao Tzu
The best way is not to fight it, just go. Don’t be trying all the time to fix things. What you run from only stays with you longer. When you fight something, you only make it stronger.” ― Chuck Palahniuk
After 10 months of galloping change, difficulty and strife we are heading into a month of much illumination, more life force and renewed hope. Our collective masculine and feminine continue to let go of the old and embrace the new co-creative paradigm. We have released so much of the old burdens from our past (or karma) and found another level of beauty and freedom in being ourselves. Our confidence, courage and resilience will continue to grow as we embrace our authentic Self. We are learning that belief in oneself means we know we have something to offer the world; this increases our sense of abundance and joy, something that has been sorely lacking so far this year. There is a growing acceptance of who we are beyond our fears, projections, shadow and wounding.
Most of us at this point are now working on our masculine self. Our feminine is well rooted in the co-creative values such as heartfelt connection, illumination, mindfulness, self-healing, respect and acceptance. She will not back down or rest until she is becomes as important in our world as our masculine is and there is more Sacred Union within. Our collective masculine finally shifted after much resistance and emotional lows in September and October; he is now tentatively dipping his toes into the values of co-creation. He is ready to commit to it more fully; to embrace his wildness once again and know that instead of destruction, greed, competition, materialism and ego, he can draw from his own creative power and rebuild and regenerate endlessly. Our world is ready to embrace the co-creative masculine values of strength, courage, boldness, generosity, collaboration and abundance. And most importantly, the rebirthing of our co-creative masculine will see the honouring of the feminine. This is a HUGE turning point for our world, no matter how chaotic a place it may seem. The majority of us collectively decided in mid-October that we have had enough of the way our masculine shows up in us, our relationships and our actions; we grieved deeply for him in ourselves. Now we step forward into the unknown, open path with a glimmer of hope on the horizon for a new future based on ONENESS. The old world is gone, and a new day dawns.
Physical and Psycho spiritual symptoms and predictions for November: With the two meteor showers and more solar flares (which will be frequent this month), you will be feeling very vulnerable and sometimes defeated by the amount of processing you will need to do. It will continue to be a busy time with many projects and situations arising that may catch you off guard. However, if you see things from a bigger perspective based on greater good, pause and reflect there will be more awakening, clarity and revelation of your inner truth. And you will be offered a way to heal and clear more wounding during each situation. Your life force will grow accordingly. Remember that as you clear and upshift, you create a ripple that joins many others in a tsumani of change.
There will continue to be small events in the world that will show us that the co-creative masculine is manifesting in a positive way, and that the feminine is being honoured by the masculine, so look for them and hold space for the new masculine to manifest. As many of us as possible need to hold space for a co-creative future as our thoughts and our energy will rapidly shift things around us. Your intuition, inner knowing and psychic ability will also continue to increase – use it wisely!
There will also be a need for patience, self-control, adjustment and moderation, and balance when dealing with situations, people or your life path. You will continue to be required to practice tenderness and unconditional love in your daily life. The collective masculine will continue to shift at great speed, with many ups and downs, so you may feel emotionally challenged at times, therefore you may experience emotional withdrawal, emotional outbursts, quick temper or find yourself pining or reflecting over the past. In the end you need to realize that you do not need to “sing for your supper.” Who you are is good enough. More importantly the choices you make going forward MUST carry a purpose beyond just yourself, then the universe and your ancestors will support you.
Below is a suggestion for dealing with relationships in the new paradigm as we continue to be triggered by old cellular memory and project or be projected on by others:
-Calm yourself and accept what is
-Step back and reflect (CREATE CONSCIOUSNESS)
-Don’t take it personally!!! – remember we are all mirrors for each other
-Detach from drama, but also be calm and engaged (be present)
-MOVE TOWARD WHAT IS HAPPENING – do not avoid or go around the issue, be like a buffalo and head into the storm, you will get through it faster
-Communicate from the heart where needed, listen, find compassion for yourself and others, set clear boundaries
Physical Symptoms will include vivid dreams and disturbed sleep,shoulder blade pain, some digestive disturbance, solar plexus tightness, thyroid and thymus issues, headaches, neck/shoulder tension, bouts of crying,muddled thinking (as we rewire our nervous system and brain) and being wired and tired, or just feeling like an energizer bunny!
Recommended Senses of the Soul products: The Lover Elixir helps helps you to forgive those who have hurt you and calls forth the unconditional love and compassion already in your heart. When you dissolve the walls around your heart so that you can love yourself, your capacity to love others will also expand. The Lover is knocking at the door of your heart so that you can love without limitation, and protect that love with clear boundaries, helps soothe heart pain and palpitations, provides emotional courage. The Warrior Elixir helps you transform feelings of anger, rage and hurt into happiness, courage and empowered action. It gives you the confidence to protect your boundaries and stand up for what is true for you, provides digestive support that heals, calms and soothes. The Magical Child Elixir returns joy and innocence to your being and opens your heart to love, infinite possibility and light again, contains Elderberry and Rosehip for immune support. Teas: Feel No Fear Tea, Thrive Immune Tea, Release the Fear Tea, Release the Grief Tea, Love Chakra Tea.
Important cosmic events for November:
New Moon- Nov 11
Full Moon- Nov 24
Southern Taurid Meteor Shower peaks – Nov 5th – a time of deep contemplation and more inner growth – take the time to go within and pray for guidance and healing. Rest the body, mind and spirit and gather up energy for the next stage of your healing. We will now move on to a two year cycle of new growth. Reflect on the new path before you so that you can start centered.
Leonid Meteor Shower peaks – Nov 18 – a strong desire for change and redirection in your life in some areas. More awareness and hidden truth will surface. Allow any necessary changes to unfold. Do not resist!
I feel there will be lots of solar flares this month! Solar flares shift our consciousness and bring in more of the co-creative masculine and unconditional love. Rest during these times (I post solar flare events on my facebook page), allow the emotions to surface and find space/time to heal.
Pictured: Jacob’s Ladder – to help heal wounds and tensions in the individual and collective psyche. Aligns intention and motivation with the wisdom of the Higher Self, encourages wisdom as a result of liberation. Teaches one to adapt to any development without letting the ego dominate and to look at life from a more spiritual perspective.